For some time, at regular intervals, I get indirect suggestion that some of the information conveyed through articles which I share is of ordinary quality. What is tried to be conveyed is "We are better and know more than the author of the article you shared."
It could be true and I am happy if "we are better" than many. I adore confidence verbalised by some.
I understand self-confidence is linked to almost every element involved in a happy and fulfilling life. Benefits of self-confidence are, reduced fear and anxiety, greater motivation and resilience and improved relationships. (Source: https:///ca/blog/shyness-is-nice/201809/why-self-confidence-is-more-important-you-think)
While it is good to be confident, it is equally essential that we guard against being overconfident. The line separating the two states might be very thin.
I understand self-confidence is linked to almost every element involved in a happy and fulfilling life. Benefits of self-confidence are, reduced fear and anxiety, greater motivation and resilience and improved relationships. (Source: https:///ca/blog/shyness-is-nice/201809/why-self-confidence-is-more-important-you-think)
While it is good to be confident, it is equally essential that we guard against being overconfident. The line separating the two states might be very thin.
And my issue is with that avoidable state, since I feel overconfidence does more harm than be of help to us. I feel the moment I enter that zone my learning and growth stops. Knowledge is a form of potential energy which, like all similar forms, flows from higher to lower levels. My overconfidence unwittingly takes me to that imaginary higher plain and stops the flow of knowledge, learning and wisdom.
We, siblings, all children of a joint family, were good, studious children, taking studies seriously and scoring good grades. In order to ensure we do not get across that thin line into the state of overconfidence, my father would tell us the story of creation of the camel.
He would say "God made all living beings. Human being was the last species. He had formed many large and small animals in his free time and given them varying sizes and shapes. He would create a form out of mud and polish it up giving finishing touches. When he felt satisfied with his creation he would give life to the form.
Once God had just put the lumps of mud and created a rough form with four long legs, long neck and short tail. He was yet to finish it up and in a hurry, Gods also can be in a hurry sometime, he accidently gave life to the form. Camel was created. That animal using his long legs started running. God urged him to stay saying he needs to give finishing touches and beautify him. But the animal did not stop saying "हम बन चुके". He had crossed that line and got into overconfidence zone. Animal suffers from that ugly, lumpy body."
My father had to just ask us "हम बन चुके"? and we would know what he wants us to do. We will get back to study mode.
When overconfidence engulfs a business organization, in my view, business suffers.
I was trying to understand when can I be reasonably sure to conclude if the individual or the group demonstrates overconfidence? Dictionary meaning of a noun "Overconfidence" is
My father had to just ask us "हम बन चुके"? and we would know what he wants us to do. We will get back to study mode.
When overconfidence engulfs a business organization, in my view, business suffers.
I was trying to understand when can I be reasonably sure to conclude if the individual or the group demonstrates overconfidence? Dictionary meaning of a noun "Overconfidence" is
"a cognitive bias characterized by
• an overestimation of one's actual ability to perform a task successfully,
• a belief that one's performance is better than that of others, or
• excessive certainty in the accuracy of one's beliefs."
While I do not suggest we should not develop confidence, my suggestion is only to be conscious of our march towards that fine line. We may not know when we crossed that line. And next we will find, we tend to be arrogant, since next stop in the journey after overconfidence is arrogance. And that is the prescription for journey down hill.
To be more aware and being on guard, I suggest studying this wiki page Overconfidence effect here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Overconfidence_effect?wprov=sfla1.
Let us pray
आ नो भद्रा: क्रतवो यन्तु विश्वत: |
Let noble thoughts come to us from every side. - Rig Veda, I-89-i
If our intelligence does not accept some thoughts as "noble", reject the specific thoughts, but do not close doors on all noble thoughts.
• an overestimation of one's actual ability to perform a task successfully,
• a belief that one's performance is better than that of others, or
• excessive certainty in the accuracy of one's beliefs."
While I do not suggest we should not develop confidence, my suggestion is only to be conscious of our march towards that fine line. We may not know when we crossed that line. And next we will find, we tend to be arrogant, since next stop in the journey after overconfidence is arrogance. And that is the prescription for journey down hill.
To be more aware and being on guard, I suggest studying this wiki page Overconfidence effect here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Overconfidence_effect?wprov=sfla1.
Let us pray
आ नो भद्रा: क्रतवो यन्तु विश्वत: |
Let noble thoughts come to us from every side. - Rig Veda, I-89-i
If our intelligence does not accept some thoughts as "noble", reject the specific thoughts, but do not close doors on all noble thoughts.
Extremely True. Very nicely narrated .Limit for own growth starts when someone starts believing that I know everything.
ReplyDeleteI agree with Ashish
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing, enjoyed the read! I love the flow of potential energy analogy.
ReplyDeleteBelieving in ones self n capabilities is a good attribute, but being over confident at times may not be good. Very well said, the next step would b arrogance n that certainly leads towards downfall at times. Very well articulated
ReplyDeleteBenefits of selfconfidence nicely explained by you. Overconfidence is arrogance.Yes I agree with you 100%
ReplyDeleteNice to read your views.